Thursday, April 25, 2013
Embracing Big Brother Status
Parker has been SO great with Reid. In the beginning he tested his boundaries (normal and expected), but has become so sweet and caring towards him. He gives hugs and kisses on a daily basis. If anything I try to encourage it hoping that one day it minimizes their little "fights".
Indoor Beach Chair?
Not long ago we ran to Walmart to pick up pictures. We all know that it is pretty difficult to run into a place like Walmart and not visit the toy aisle. In passing, there were these adorable beach chairs perfectly placed in spots specifically designed to catch little eyes; Parker's eyes. Of course he had to "try" them out. Needless to say, he carried that chair the entire time we were there. For $5.00, and perfect for the beach, I couldn't say no.
It hasn't seen a day at the beach, but don't fret... It gets plenty of use at home.
It hasn't seen a day at the beach, but don't fret... It gets plenty of use at home.
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
The Reality of Parenthood
Ok. The truth is...
When it was just Parker and I there was no drive or motivation to have the house in complete order or spotless. In fact, that's never been the case for almost 30 years. However, since Reid, all I want and wish to do is clean and get things organized and in order. That's how it works, right? When you realize you have very small windows of opportunity to get things done, you get motivated... OR do you?
If there's a day the boys are both down, at the same time, I can get things done. Right? But, it's when you see that hour and a half to two hours right before your eyes, you sense a short period of freedom! It's like Jesus rewarding me for something, ha-ha. Ok, I kid, but sitting and doing absolutely nothing feels too good to be true. I always have to do a double take to make sure they're both really sleeping. After evaluating all the items on my to-do list, I realize I took too long "evaluating". It's too late. One of the boys are up and need me. After all, the sound of cleaning and clashing of dishes may wake them. Am I the only mother who thinks this way?
You might be asking how I have time to write this blog. Well, both boys were down, made myself lunch AND had time to eat it. No scarfing; most moms know what I mean. I sat for about 20 minutes browsing Target online hoping to find good deals on toddler clothes (Parker's growing like a weed!) and made the decision to start cleaning the mess before me. I push the round button at the bottom of my iPad, and it was in unison, Reid decides to cut his nap short. That's just the way it goes. He is now sound asleep on my chest because Momma is more comfy than the swing he was in. And this is what inspired me to write!
Life is no longer about me, or us (Grant and I). Our life is dedicated to meeting the needs of two wonderful little boys. It's exhausting. It's hard work. And although there are days I wish I could just lay in bed and not do ONE thing, I know there are two little boys who need me. I'm always reminded that God chose me to be their caregiver and their mom. It is a blessing to be able to watch them grow, lead them, teach them and love them. It's a huge responsibility to raise kids and Grant and I want nothing more than to have taught them to love and serve God. We are accountable to God for the way we raise them, and we want him look down and be proud.
Parenthood is selfless and tiring, but exciting, fun and rewarding. We should treat our walk with God in the same manner... Selfless. After all, everything we do should be for Him and pleasing to Him. Boy, do I still have a ton to work on!!!
When it was just Parker and I there was no drive or motivation to have the house in complete order or spotless. In fact, that's never been the case for almost 30 years. However, since Reid, all I want and wish to do is clean and get things organized and in order. That's how it works, right? When you realize you have very small windows of opportunity to get things done, you get motivated... OR do you?
If there's a day the boys are both down, at the same time, I can get things done. Right? But, it's when you see that hour and a half to two hours right before your eyes, you sense a short period of freedom! It's like Jesus rewarding me for something, ha-ha. Ok, I kid, but sitting and doing absolutely nothing feels too good to be true. I always have to do a double take to make sure they're both really sleeping. After evaluating all the items on my to-do list, I realize I took too long "evaluating". It's too late. One of the boys are up and need me. After all, the sound of cleaning and clashing of dishes may wake them. Am I the only mother who thinks this way?
You might be asking how I have time to write this blog. Well, both boys were down, made myself lunch AND had time to eat it. No scarfing; most moms know what I mean. I sat for about 20 minutes browsing Target online hoping to find good deals on toddler clothes (Parker's growing like a weed!) and made the decision to start cleaning the mess before me. I push the round button at the bottom of my iPad, and it was in unison, Reid decides to cut his nap short. That's just the way it goes. He is now sound asleep on my chest because Momma is more comfy than the swing he was in. And this is what inspired me to write!
Life is no longer about me, or us (Grant and I). Our life is dedicated to meeting the needs of two wonderful little boys. It's exhausting. It's hard work. And although there are days I wish I could just lay in bed and not do ONE thing, I know there are two little boys who need me. I'm always reminded that God chose me to be their caregiver and their mom. It is a blessing to be able to watch them grow, lead them, teach them and love them. It's a huge responsibility to raise kids and Grant and I want nothing more than to have taught them to love and serve God. We are accountable to God for the way we raise them, and we want him look down and be proud.
Parenthood is selfless and tiring, but exciting, fun and rewarding. We should treat our walk with God in the same manner... Selfless. After all, everything we do should be for Him and pleasing to Him. Boy, do I still have a ton to work on!!!
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
Wonderful Weekend of Firsts
This past weekend was so wonderful. Every minute of it!
Visitors are few and far between. It's rare to have anyone here, but when we do, it's exciting! My momma, Laura and Connor came to visit and it was so pleasant. It's not often we get to see them.
Since Reid, we haven't left Ponte Vedra to do much traveling. It's sad that we haven't made it to Orlando, but even sadder that lots of family (on both sides) still haven't met him. However, this weekend Reid finally met his Aunt "Roara" and cousin Connor! I can't believe it took this long, but sickness this year has made it impossible to get together. Now, the only sibling of mine that he hasn't met is his Uncle TT. Soon enough!
Well, while they were here we took them up on a date night! Shocking, I know. After looking back, I believe the last time we went on a "date" was before Parker started walking. So, it's been well over a year. Dating your spouse is so important, and at this point we didn't even know what to do with ourselves. We ended up going to dinner at Brio's, and walked the local town center. It wasn't much, but it was what we needed--time to ourselves. We enjoyed uninterrupted conversation. Diaper and bottle worries weren't ours for the few hours we were out. It was marvelous!
And last, Reid slept through the night for the first time Saturday night (and a second time last night)! I can only hope it's the start of something new, but I won't hold my breath. I'll count the full nights he gives me a blessing :-)
Visitors are few and far between. It's rare to have anyone here, but when we do, it's exciting! My momma, Laura and Connor came to visit and it was so pleasant. It's not often we get to see them.
Since Reid, we haven't left Ponte Vedra to do much traveling. It's sad that we haven't made it to Orlando, but even sadder that lots of family (on both sides) still haven't met him. However, this weekend Reid finally met his Aunt "Roara" and cousin Connor! I can't believe it took this long, but sickness this year has made it impossible to get together. Now, the only sibling of mine that he hasn't met is his Uncle TT. Soon enough!
Well, while they were here we took them up on a date night! Shocking, I know. After looking back, I believe the last time we went on a "date" was before Parker started walking. So, it's been well over a year. Dating your spouse is so important, and at this point we didn't even know what to do with ourselves. We ended up going to dinner at Brio's, and walked the local town center. It wasn't much, but it was what we needed--time to ourselves. We enjoyed uninterrupted conversation. Diaper and bottle worries weren't ours for the few hours we were out. It was marvelous!
And last, Reid slept through the night for the first time Saturday night (and a second time last night)! I can only hope it's the start of something new, but I won't hold my breath. I'll count the full nights he gives me a blessing :-)
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Someone Turned Two Months Today!
Happy 2-month birthday to our little Reid! It is crazy how fast time flies. I feel like we were just bringing him home from the hospital, I blinked, and now we're staring at 2 months.
We learned that Reid had reflux at his well visit two weeks ago. It was causing him discomfort, more spit up and extra fussiness. He wasn't sleeping well, and couldn't nurse comfortably. So now he's on Zantac, and there have been some improvements. I hate giving him the medication, but do you let him suffer the pain that comes along with reflux? It's tough being a mom and making "right" decisions. However, the good news is that he is doing a lot better, and sleeping a little better for mommy.
Parker's really starting to enjoy his "big brother" status. Now that Reid responds with smiles (has been for about 2 weeks), Parker has been pretty excited about him.
He will talk to him with a high pitch voice (like Mommy) just to get a smile out of him. Parker kisses come often during the day, snot and all. I'm in love.
Reid isn't a great traveler yet. He likes to over exaggerate by crying until he's practically out of breath. I don't like it one bit, and I'll pull over every time. He gets so worked up that he starts this horrible sounding cough and/or pitiful whimper. Anyways, Parker is such a trooper when Reid is having his meltdowns. He usually says, "Reid, it's oooookay. It's just our car." Reid may stop for a second or two and start back up again, and Parker will go, "Mommy, he's crying again. He's not happy." It's adorable seeing him express concern for his brother; either that or he's just annoyed with it and wants it to stop. Either way, he's pretty calm when the meltdowns occur.
I'm sure there will be plenty more stories to come. In the meantime, this was suppose to be a quick Happy 2 Months to our baby boy! We love him to pieces!
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| 2 Months Old Today |
We learned that Reid had reflux at his well visit two weeks ago. It was causing him discomfort, more spit up and extra fussiness. He wasn't sleeping well, and couldn't nurse comfortably. So now he's on Zantac, and there have been some improvements. I hate giving him the medication, but do you let him suffer the pain that comes along with reflux? It's tough being a mom and making "right" decisions. However, the good news is that he is doing a lot better, and sleeping a little better for mommy.
Parker's really starting to enjoy his "big brother" status. Now that Reid responds with smiles (has been for about 2 weeks), Parker has been pretty excited about him.
He will talk to him with a high pitch voice (like Mommy) just to get a smile out of him. Parker kisses come often during the day, snot and all. I'm in love.
Reid isn't a great traveler yet. He likes to over exaggerate by crying until he's practically out of breath. I don't like it one bit, and I'll pull over every time. He gets so worked up that he starts this horrible sounding cough and/or pitiful whimper. Anyways, Parker is such a trooper when Reid is having his meltdowns. He usually says, "Reid, it's oooookay. It's just our car." Reid may stop for a second or two and start back up again, and Parker will go, "Mommy, he's crying again. He's not happy." It's adorable seeing him express concern for his brother; either that or he's just annoyed with it and wants it to stop. Either way, he's pretty calm when the meltdowns occur.
I'm sure there will be plenty more stories to come. In the meantime, this was suppose to be a quick Happy 2 Months to our baby boy! We love him to pieces!
Wish Me Luck!
Wish me luck at blogging again! There is so much I want to share with family and close friends that I don't get to see that often. So, here is my attempt at updating you guys on the busy life of the Bevills.
There is so much that has happened since the last time I blogged (December 31, 2012), so you may see some older events/pictures. I want my close family members to feel like they still get to "see" us on a regular basis :-)
Here we go...
There is so much that has happened since the last time I blogged (December 31, 2012), so you may see some older events/pictures. I want my close family members to feel like they still get to "see" us on a regular basis :-)
Here we go...
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Thankful
About two months ago forever changed me, my heart, and the way I view life. It certainly isn't promised, and we must never take for granted who and what we have.
I was very vague in explaining the events that took place in the hospital during the birth of Reid. It was emotional. It was scary and eye-opening. When doctors don't know what happened (they've said what they have is an "educated guess"), God's the only answer to the outcome. Period. With that, I give my biggest THANKS and PRAISE to Our Heavenly Father for his healing hand and protection. Also, a huge thank you to my husband who is nothing less than amazing. You are Super Dad/Husband for sure! And of course, a big thank you to all of my family and friends who helped, both near and far.
Since then, everything has progressively gotten better. Parker is adjusting well for the most part, minus a few expected incidents. He loves to kiss him on his head, and lights up when Reid smiles. He will say, "Mommy, he smiled at me." It's adorable.
6 WEEK CHECKUP
Parker, Reid and I all had check ups last Thursday. I was down 37 pounds since Reid was born (Feb.7), and everything else was great. Parker had his 2-year well visit, and Reid his 2-month well visit. There were concerns that Reid's hips weren't aligned, which could cause other problems later in life. But, God is so good and the results came back just fine!
I was very vague in explaining the events that took place in the hospital during the birth of Reid. It was emotional. It was scary and eye-opening. When doctors don't know what happened (they've said what they have is an "educated guess"), God's the only answer to the outcome. Period. With that, I give my biggest THANKS and PRAISE to Our Heavenly Father for his healing hand and protection. Also, a huge thank you to my husband who is nothing less than amazing. You are Super Dad/Husband for sure! And of course, a big thank you to all of my family and friends who helped, both near and far.
Since then, everything has progressively gotten better. Parker is adjusting well for the most part, minus a few expected incidents. He loves to kiss him on his head, and lights up when Reid smiles. He will say, "Mommy, he smiled at me." It's adorable.
6 WEEK CHECKUP
Parker, Reid and I all had check ups last Thursday. I was down 37 pounds since Reid was born (Feb.7), and everything else was great. Parker had his 2-year well visit, and Reid his 2-month well visit. There were concerns that Reid's hips weren't aligned, which could cause other problems later in life. But, God is so good and the results came back just fine!
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